August 8, 2007

Emotional Equation

When someone is doing something or about to do something, in a way I don't
want it to be done - and i am not able to accept it - i become angry.
When someone is doing something or about to do something, in a way I don't want it to be done - and i am able to accept it - i remain tolerant.


When someone is having something or someone is able to produce the results which i am not able to produce - and I m not able to accept it - I become jealous.
When someone is having something or someone is able to produce the results which i am not able to produce - and i am able to accept it - i get inspired.


When i am encountering uncertainty or is about to encounter uncertainty, which i am not sure how i am going to handle - and i am not able to accept it - it causes fear in me.
When i am encountering uncertainty or is about to encounter uncertainty, which i am not sure how i am going to handle - and i am able to accept it - i feel adventurous about it.


When someone has done something that has emotionally hurt me - and i am not able to accept it - it develops hatred in me.
When someone has done something that has emotionally hurt me - and i am able to accept it - it helps me forgive them.


When someone is present in my thoughts, but is not physically present - and i am not able to accept it - i say i am missing you.
When someone is present in my thoughts, but is not physically present - and i am able to accept it - i say i am thinkin of you.


Thus, Emotional Equation becomes:

Something + acceptance = positive emotion
Something + non-acceptance = negative emotion


So, it is not something or someone who is making me feel positive or negative, but its my acceptance or non-acceptance of something or someone, which impacts things.

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